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A Thing a Year – Part the First

A Thing A Year – 34 Life Lessons I’ve Learned:

1. Attitude is everything. When you’re down in the dumps, life dumps on you more. When you stay positive and happy, you’ll be amazed at what you can do with just scraps and a smile.

2. The first axiom is much easier believed than put into practice.

3. Money isn’t everything. But, everything wants money.

4. A day spent without music is like a black and white film – what’s going on might be great, but something seems to be missing…

5. A good writer is a great reader. A great writer…well, I need to go read…

6. Everyone should experience a summer night in a place where you can see the stars overhead and hear the crickets all around you.

7. Never be afraid to try new foods. You never know when you’re going to find your favorite food.

8. Always take time in your day to do something you love. Even if it’s just 5 minutes with a great book, or on the phone with your best friend/significant other. Those 5 minutes can make a long day bearable.

9. It’s too easy to forget the joy of being a kid. Do things as an adult that take you back there…walk…ride your bike…skip…make random snow angels or stop to jump in a puddle.

10. There’s no way to accurately convey to a non-parent what it’s like to be a parent, because there’s no way to describe how someone can make you feel worse about life than you ever have, while at the same time making you feel happier than you ever than you ever thought possible.

11. The only mark many of us will leave on this earth will be a negative one – we should all be striving to make positive changes in this world to contribute to it instead of constantly taking.

12. Dogs are the best friend a kid can ever have.

To be continued…

Vacation Recap

I am back from vacation today. Mrs. Monkey, the Little Monkey and I all went to Florida to visit my mom and her husband. As we were in the state, my Dad and stepmom drove up from the Keys where they live, and we all got to visit. It was a really great vacation in the sense that we got to visit with lots of family I don’t see too often. And Cole loved the water available to him in Florida – pools, ocean…he was in heaven. But, someone needs to teach that boy that when you’re on vacation, you don’t NEED to get up at 6:30 AM. Ugh. I got up earlier on vacation than I do when I’m home and working. Oh well.

Whilst in Florida, I managed to infect my finger. Not sure how it happened, and the urgent care staff who tended to me didn’t seem to have any guesses to hazard either, so it remains a mystery. I would post the picture, but the last person I shared it with went running from the hills and hasn’t been heard from since. If you really want to see, let me know, but we’ll just leave it categorized as “gross”. It has since recovered quite well, thanks to antibiotics and pain relief, so I should be back to normal before long.

…well, as normal as I get.

Earth Daze

See what I did there? With the Daze? And the Days? Ehh? Ehhhhhh??? Yeah, okay, it was silly, but hang in there.

So, Earth Day was yesterday. I think we all know enough about it by now that I don’t need to give you a linky to go read up on it. Google it if you have been under a rock and still aren’t sure about what it is. I sat for a good while yesterday, trying to think of a good post to put up here. The thoughts ranged from great projects that took place (Greeblemonkey spear-headed a great one that I mentioned before and it did pretty well, from early returns) to just saying – “Hey, Earth. Happy you day.”

But, today, I thought of how I wanted to pay some homage. Hopefully it doesn’t come across too preachy or “holier-than-thou”, because I’m neither of those things, but maybe we need to do a little preaching, or no one will take action.

Having an Earth Day is a good thing and a bad thing. On one hand, it raises awareness of problematic environmental issues, and gives people an opportunity to take some action. But, on the other hand, it allows people to feel they are doing enough if they take action that one day a year. Being “green” minded is a much more healthy approach, and allows you to do smaller things all year that end up having a much bigger impact. So, I think having smaller “Earth Days” (eh? See, Daze/Days…THERE it is. Damn, I’m funny) is more useful.

On that note, here are a few things that we do at Casa de Monkey that are in this “green” minded theme, and hopefully will inspire you as well:

1. Use cloth bags when you go shopping. Americans use millions upon millions of plastic bags every year, and although they are better than they use to be, they still take time to break down. Bring along a good cloth tote bag, and you’ll be creating less waste.

2. Walk/ride a bike more often. Instead of hopping in the car to go the corner store for that bottle of water and bag of chips, toss on a backpack and take your bike or hoof it. You’ll end up feeling better about your health, save money on gas – which can’t hurt with the prices today, and create less pollution.

3. Use recycled paper and plastic products. If you recycle your plastics and paper, you’re only doing half the job. While that does help, to truly get away from wasting those products you’re sending in to recycle, you should look to buy products that are made from those recycled items. There’s lots out there, and you may already be doing it without even knowing.

4. Start a vegetable garden. When you buy vegetables in the grocery store, don’t forget that you are paying for not only the veggies, but for the oil used to transport them to your location. The further away they are (I’m talking to you Brazillian bananas), the more that money goes towards oil prices. If you grow your own veggies, you avoid a lot of the preservatives and pesticides used by larger companies, avoid unneeded hormones added to some veggies and can take some pleasure in producing your own food. If you can’t grow your own veggies, see if your area has a farmer’s market or food co-op that you might be able to use. They’re great alternatives and tend to use local produce.

5. Replace your regular light bulbs with compact fluorescent bulbs. The new compact fluorescent bulbs cost much less in the long run, because they last much longer than standard light bulbs. This creates less waste in the landfills. As a bonus, they save you a bit on your energy bill because they use less energy. Which, depending on what energy company you use, may mean less oil/petroleum use as well.

Okay – thanks for the opportunity to stand on my soap box and say a bit. I hope more people will take an interest in the kind of impact we have on the planet, and try to minimize it as much as possible. Every little bit helps, after all. If you have some ideas – small things we can all do throughout the year – please share them by posting them in the comments.

March They Might Be Giants Show – Dallas, TX

I meant to post the set list for the They Might Be Giants show I went to at the House of Blues in Dallas on March 5th. I used twitter to do a sort of “live play-by-play” while I was at the concert, so that left me with a log of the show. It was a fun experiment to do.

So, if you weren’t able to make it to the show, and you happen to have these They Might Be Giants songs, you could always put together a playlist of the set…or not. I dunno. Maybe this is of interest, and maybe it isn’t. Let me know thoughts.

They Might Be Giants
Dallas, TX – The House of Blues
March 5, 2008

1. The Cap’m
2. The Shadow Government
3. Dr. Worm
4. Particle Man
5. Cyclops Rock
6. Whithered Hope
7. (You’re Not the) Boss of Me
8. Birdhouse in My Soul
9. Take Out the Trash
10. Ana Ng
11. Memo to Human Resources
12. The Mesopotamians
13. New York City
14. I’m Impressed
15. One Dozen Monkeys
16. Apartment #4
17. Alphabet of Nations
18. It’s Not My Birthday
19. Hey Mr. DJ, I Thought You Said We Had a Deal
20. Damn Good Times
21. Older
22. How Can I Sing Like a Girl?
23. Experimental Film
– encore 1 -
24. Clap Your Hands
25. Istanbul
– encore 2 –
26. Maybe I Know
27. Why Does the Sun Shine?

Wildflower 2008


Tickets went on sale yesterday for this year’s Wildflower Festival in Richardson, TX. This festival is almost always a great time. They have a great gathering of restaurant booths and artist displays, and always seem to attract some relatively big-name bands. In the past, they have had Bowling for Soup, Better than Ezra and Cowboy Mouth, just to name a few. They are usually bands that can’t quite fill large venues in the Dallas area, but are still of interest to see. And there’s nothing quite like an evening concert in the Texas Spring…

This year’s lineup includes Everclear and Eve 6, and I’ve been on the internets already, talking to friends about making an evening of it. I know, I know…Art Alexakis can be a bit…well…Art Alexakis. But, the music is still damned enjoyable. And, you can’t be the ticket price – only $7.50 for residents, and it covers the whole evening, so that’s for both bands. Woo hoo!

Post 100!

One Hundred posts…seems like a benchmark of sorts, but as I have only been posting a few times a year, as of late, I guess it’s kind of an anti-climactic benchmark. But, I’m happy to be here nonetheless. W00t!

If you are reading this within a few days or weeks of this posting, you are probably noticing several changes to the site. I made some changes to kind of focus this area to be writing-centric. I really want to take away some of the more distracting widgets that were on the site, and put the emphasis on my writing. I hope this is met with approval (hell, I’ll take general acceptance) and not virtual tomatoes lobbed in my direction. I’m open to any ideas you might have, as well.

There are still some widgets, though, as you can see. A link to photos and a glimpse into what I’m reading at the moment are still up there. As far as the weather is concerned and updates about movies and food, that sort of thing – well, I’ll put that in the posting.

I’ve also gotten rid of links to some other websites, and consolidated that with blogs I read. To friends who find that their website is no longer listed on the page – well, your blogs aren’t being updated. So, I’m trying to clear things up. Let me know that you’re planning a post, and I’ll list you there. I would love for visitors to my blog to be able to read blogs that *I* read regularly and find interesting. It was nothing personal. That said, go check out the sites I listed. I can almost guarantee you’ll find some fun things worth reading.

Okay, well – let the comments flow.

Updates Coming Soon…

Wow – how have you all been? Sorry for the delay in getting back to writing. Wowzers. Anyway, while I’m getting things in order, here are a couple of things:

1. This is good information to know:
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2. If you haven’t signed up already (and nearly all my friends haven’t, at least as far as I know), go to Twitter and sign up for an account. I update on Twitter pretty regularly – a few times a day, anyway, usually. And there are some great Tech and Pop Culture folks out there that you can follow and get an inside into what’s new with them. Please add me – I’m WiredMonkey there too. Here’s an easy to understand explanation of how it works.

I will try to update more regularly. The little monkeyling is doing well. Here’s a pic of him to wrap things up:

Yes We Can

I don’t do much political talk here at the Minutia, but it’s important to point out that many states here in the U.S. are going to have a caucus tomorrow, and that many of you might live in such states. I urge you, if you do live in such a state, to go out and make your voice heard. If we want change in this nation, no matter how difficult that change is to make happen, it starts with a vote.

In that spirit, I found a great video on my friend Greeblemonkey’s site, and I’m re-posting it on mine so that some other folks who may not have seen it might see it and take some inspiration from it’s message. I think that even if you don’t support Obama and his platform (I happen to), it’s still a great message to hear

Hope you folks in Caucus states get out and vote!! Thanks for your time.

Monkey out.

I’m Going Down to South Park…

Just in case any of you ever wondered what the WiredMonkey might look like as a South Park character….wonder no more:

Just thought you might want to know.

Over the Holiday…

The posts have been lacking again – sorry about that. One thing lead to another…it was an evil domino effect. Horrible stuff those dominos. Evil dominos of blog prevention.

The holidays were nice. Had a great visit with A&E, ate lots of turkey and marveled at how quickly time can fly when you’re having fun. Took a great road trip – Dublin Dr. Pepper plant in Dublin, TX. It’s the oldest Dr. Pepper bottling plant in the world. Pretty interesting really. AND, we got to see the world’s largest cedar rocker on our way there. Nifty!

Got lions and tigers…only in Kenya.

Then, once you’ve digested that… 5 more minutes.

Wheeee….